There’s something about planning a wedding in three months that leaves you feeling decidedly behind. Perhaps it’s because everytime I see a little wedding planning guide, the first thing I read is, “24 months before your wedding, secure a location…” And boom. I’m already 21 months behind.

But somehow I feel sure that, even though I bought the dress 3 months before and not 6-12, and even though the invitations have yet to be mailed because they have yet to be delivered because they were ordered 2 months before and not 4, the wedding will happen in pefect loveliness, people will be there, and I’ll walk out with a different name.

Deep breath.