Hi, I’m Danica.

I guess I’m a lot of things: a wife, a mom, a daughter, a sister, a crafter, a cook, a reader, a writer, a homemaker, a pianist, and probably a lot more too. But at the end of the day, I’m just a Christian trying to find and obey God’s will.

Archive for the 'childbirth' Category

william’s birth

Monday, October 27th, 2008

Just the birth — I’ll share my thoughts on the “home” part in another post!
My mom arrived around midnight on the 13th. As she and Ryan walked in the back door, Ryan sighed a relieved sigh and said, “Okay. Now you can have the baby.”
Well, I didn’t. Instead, we took walks, did laundry, chatted over [...]

It’s a Boy!

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

Danica gave birth at 4:33AM. She was TOTALLY HARDCORE. She labored through the night and when the midwife asked, “do you want me to check if you can push?” She responded, “No; I want to wait and go as long as I can.” Total pushing time: 3-5 minutes.
No name. Weight unknown. We’re going to [...]

nesting and nesting and nesting and nes…

Monday, October 6th, 2008

Tonight I excitedly threw a load of brand new kissaluvs into the wash. A few more cycles, and they’ll be fluffed up and ready to go. They’re tiny and soft and squishy… and I can’t wait to put their softness on my new baby!
This morning, getting ready for church required tidying the entire house, wiping [...]

me and my buddy

Friday, October 3rd, 2008

On Wednesday evening, our midwife came for the home visit. This was when she explained to us what was in the birth kit that I had dutifully ordered, took a tour of our home (including closets with extra towels and such — how often do yo include those in your tours?), and talked with us [...]

mothers, daughters, and homebirths!

Thursday, October 2nd, 2008

When I tell people I’m having a homebirth, one of the most common reaction is, “You’re so brave!”
(When we told one of Ryan’s co-workers, a young single man, his eyes bugged out of his head and he asked incredulously, “Can you do that?” I smiled. As though a hospital room somehow is a necessary part [...]

mothers, daughters, and childbirth

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008

“Perhaps our children will grow up familiar with birth and knowing it to be a positive, fulfilling process, but for most of us that discovery, and a corresponding effort of deconditioning, must occur when we become pregnant or are contemplating having a child.” (Rahima Baldwin, Special Delivery)
I read that line last week as I flipped [...]